How to Throw the Perfect 4th of July Soirée in Charlotte

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Fireworks, festive drinks, and freedom from your family? Sign us up. If you’re planning to host your first 4th of July soirée this year, you’re not alone. Whether you're a seasoned entertainer or planning your first gathering, the Queen City provides the perfect backdrop for a star-spangled celebration. Here’s how I’m planning to celebrate Independence Day in style—and how you can too.

Start with a Signature Theme

The key to a memorable party is a memorable theme. This year, mine is called “Get Me Away From My Family.” I’m using the holiday as a chance to break from tradition and host something entirely my own. After years of doing the same thing with family, I wanted to carve out space for a new kind of celebration. It sets the tone for a gathering that's laid-back, fun, and full of people who are choosing to spend the day a little differently this year.

Go All In on the Festive Decor

Growing up, my family never missed a 4th of July barbecue, but we often missed the mark with decorations. This time, I’m committed to going all out. Whether it’s a quick trip to HomeGoods or a splurge at Pottery Barn, festive touches go a long way in making the day feel special. Think table runners in bold red and navy, star-shaped string lights, and drinkware that feels just as celebratory as the fireworks. Choose quality pieces and consider it a one-time investment you can bring out again next year.

Curate a Crowd-Pleasing Menu

You can never go wrong with the classics. Hamburgers, hot dogs, baked beans, and mac and cheese are all on my menu this year. But if you’re feeling bold, consider a few unexpected additions. Grilled peach crostini offers a sweet and smoky twist, while a watermelon and feta salad brings bright, refreshing flavor to the table. And no celebration is complete without a signature cocktail. I’ll be serving a festive spiked blue lemonade that’s as fun to drink as it is to photograph. You could also try a blueberry mojito, a cucumber gin fizz, or even a frozen rosé for a little extra flair.

Set the Mood with Music

Music sets the tone for the entire day, and for me, that means curating a playlist filled with R&B and hip hop from the 90s and early 2000s. These are the sounds that instantly take me back to childhood summer cookouts, long car rides, and neighborhood block parties. It’s all about creating a nostalgic and feel-good vibe that flows from afternoon to evening. Make sure your playlist has a good mix of upbeat tracks and smooth grooves so guests can dance, chill, or simply vibe out while enjoying the moment.

End the Night on a High Note

Don’t let your soirée fizzle out. Whether you pass out sparklers as the sun sets or light up a few fireworks (where legal, of course), make sure your guests end the night with a memory worth keeping. Even a well-timed group photo or a spontaneous dance party can become the highlight of the night.

Whatever your 4th of July looks like this year, lean into joy, laughter, and a little bit of extra sparkle. Your guests will thank you—and you might just start a new tradition of your own.